Honey, my hair is exactly like yours! But I live in Charleston, SC, where we have 98% humidity and it ain't raining! Try getting a curl enhancing spray (sometimes called curl shaping spray). I actually got mine at Wal-Mart real cheap. It will give your curls some shape without making your hair look like a lion's mane. Also, when your hair is still wet, scrunch it in your hands to make more curls. And once your hair dries, don't touch it! It will separate the curls and make your hair look frizzy! Hope that helps!
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