I pass on the funeral pictures. At my friend's funeral in October, her uncle was there with a camcorder. No one else seemed to notice him, but I was staring him DOWN, like "Ohhhh HELL NO!!!"
I have seen funeral pictures with people posing next to the casket like they are taking one of those polaroids you take at the club!!
Sometimes I wonder if I should have taken pictures of my loved ones in their final state, but I know that I would go to PIECES if I ever looked at them.