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Originally posted by sigmagrrl
I've noticed that people (no one on here, b/c I don't know you all that well) who say that they don't want to get married right now or are ok waiting are usually people who have dated extensively, have LOTS of friends and other things to keep them busy. They've been really lucky in their life and feel it is full as it is. On the other hand, those who say they want to get married NOW feel marriage is a Band-Aid to fix an empty hole inside. I know that sometimes that is my reason for wanting to get married, but I know that, before I can make someone ELSE happy, I have to make myself happy and be ok by myself...
Remember, I'm not talking about ANYONE on here, just an observation from personal experiences and people I know...
Thoughts??
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And Cashmoney--you ain't right for that...
Sigmagrrl--
I had all the partying in the world when I lived in SoCal... I had friends up the ying yang... I massively dated... And I had a love life to envy... I was hanging out in bars actually being with the stars up in the Champagne room... I had it like dat dere... And I was truly happy with my life and way things were going...
But nothing in life lasts forever. And partying till 6 in the morning gets old--quickly. And I thought there was more to my life than just my friends.
And to basically put it to you, I got tired of sitting at the kiddie table during Thanksgiving...
So 2 years ago, I left SoCal for my soulquest to the wilderness of middle America and I freely gave up the fabulous life... Now, I think I am a better person for it. And I am married to a wonderful human being that gives me sanctuary and solace during my rollercoaster ride I have made in my life...
That's how it worked for me...