There are certain types of girls who don't mind, but I do think the majority of them will associate "big booty" with "fat" even though that's not always the case. My little sister, who is tiny, thinks she has a big booty even though she doesn't, really, at all, and telling her she has a "ghetto booty" is one of the fastest ways to piss her off. With me, any comments about my "big booty," even when they were obviously joking about it, were a huge fuel to my eating disorder. Now clearly I was a screwed up girl so hopefully your buddy won't take it the way I did . . . but even so, let this be a lesson to all men that girls DO NOT take "big booty" comments as compliments, even though that is how they're often meant.
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