[trojangal]

I was lavaliered before my exBF gave me an engagement ring. When we broke it off, I gave him his ring back, but at the time hadn't thought about the lavalier. Once I was home after graduation, I found the lavalier in my jewelry box and sent it back to him. About a week later, a package came in the mail. He sent it back to me, saying it was for me to keep. When I was at HC this past month, I asked some of the brothers of the fraternity if there was any protocol regarding the lavalier. After much discussion, one of the elder alumni said to just keep it; another ( who was not fond of the EX) said to pitch it in the closest lake. So...it is packed away in my jewelry box, and who knows..someday, maybe I'll find a nice young man of that organization who would have a good use for it.