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Originally posted by GeekyPenguin
You can't blame your figure for your lack of boyfriend. Plenty of overweight girls have boyfriends, husbands, girlfriends, whatever floats their boat.
Try not being so picky. In my ideal GP world, I'd only date ice Irish Catholic boys. I never end up doing it but that doesn't prevent me from being in a relationship.
Happiness doesn't revolve around a man. Some of the happiest times of my life were when I was single and didn't have anybody else to care about besides myself.
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GP is right! There are plenty of full figured women who have wonderful, meaningful relationships. I haven't had a date in over a year, and I've never had a serious relationship. I used to blame my weight, but now I know that it's not so much my weight as it is my insecurity in myself.
It's taking time but I'm getting better. You have to love yourself before anyone can love you back. You also have to change the way you look and feel on the inside before you can truely change the outside.