Politcal Correctness aside, I think Pm_mama is correct.
Generally, the closer you are to average the more attention you are going to get. The more attention you get the more likely someone is going to like you or you are going to like someone.
To a certain degree that applieseven if you are not-average in the direction of exceptional beauty . . the amount of attention begins to drop off.
The sooner people realize that the better. We can spend years agonizing over people not liking us because we are out of shape, or have abrasive personalities, or we can do something about it.
However, most people would rather say "it shouldn't be that way." rather than do anything about it.
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Originally posted by cash78mere
i still say, don't blame weight on not finding a guy. yes, it MAY be a deterrent for some guys, but definitely not all! go about finding a guy in a different way--maybe the bar scene isn't right for all people. it sure as hell wasn't right for me.
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