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Originally posted by PM_Mama00
Umm could you send them my way? Every decent guy (aka guy who hasn't creeped me out... and I'm a very open-minded girl) has always said that I'm so cool and fun to hang out with. None of them have ever liked me or anything. I have a few friends who I'm exactly like... we act alike and all... so why are the guys flocking to them and I haven't been on ONE date ever?
Weight does have somethign to do with it, and unless you're in that position you can't really say anything. We're the ones who go through tons of rejection, and yes many times it's "I'm not attracted to you".
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who said i wasn't in that position? as a matter of fact, i am! don't be so quick to judge.
i, too, always had many good guy friends. none of them ever liked me either. but not because i wasn't a size 2, it was because i was their friend! i wasn't attracted to them and they weren't attracted to me. but i did meet a few good guys who were attracted to me. i've also met plenty of guys who WEREN'T attracted to me--whether because of my size, personality, hair color, religion, etc.
i still say, don't blame weight on not finding a guy. yes, it MAY be a deterrent for some guys, but definitely not all! go about finding a guy in a different way--maybe the bar scene isn't right for all people. it sure as hell wasn't right for me.