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Originally posted by Rollergirl2001
Also, I'm full figured, so that explained why I'm not having any luck in the love department. I feel left out because all of my friends have boyfriends.
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being full figured shouldn't have anything to do with boyfriends. there are MANY guys who will only date plus-sized women.
although i had boyfriends through high school and college, the relationship that i'm in now (i'm 26) is really my only "true" relationship where i love him dearly and can't wait to see him every day. every other relationship i never really cared about.
my suggestion----go on match.com. allow men to see your picture and read about you and then THEY can approach you safely by writing. you don't even have to write to anyone if you're afraid of rejection. i know so many people who have had success with it, me included. i know 2 people who are engaged to the boyfriend they met on it.
i think you'll have success because YOU'LL be in control. you can search for your older, wilder man. and you don't have to tell anyone where you met. it can be your little secret

good luck to you.