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Originally posted by AlphaSigLana:
Today I started thinking about my ex and it really got me down. I don't understand why he broke up with me.He did it by email and all he said was he likes to spend time with his friends. It took him four weeks before he even had the guts to talk to me. He dumped me 2 wks ago today. I never feel like i am good enough for anyone. Has anyone ever felt this way? Has anyone ever wanted to switch schools and start all over?
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Aww, girlie, I'm so sorry
. Ya know what? Now's the BEST time to induldge yourself - get that new shirt you've been eyeing, get that extra scoop of ice cream, go out on the town with the girls - ANYTHING to keep you busy, to keep him offf your mind!!! For one thing, I think that was a jerky act that he did - dumping you by e-mail. How immature. You totally deserve someone who can actually talk to you face-to-face!!!!!!! You seem like a really cool, intelligent girl from your posts and your e-mails
. I have no doubt in my mind that you will totally heal - just give it time, sweetie
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All you can do now, is engross yourself in some fun activities. Hang with your friends and family. Do something new - like, I don't know - if you've always wondered about bungee jumping, why not try it? Soak in a bubble bath or somehting. The best revenge you can get against your ex is to SHOW him how wonderful you are WITHOUT him. Show him that you're doing great (though deep down you might not be feeling all that good)...that'll make him wonder.
Sometimes revenge is SOOO very sweet
. And, from my experience, once you PRETEND that you're feeling fabulous - you actually START feeling great!!!!!!!
Though it seems like you might not ever get over him - time is the best healer of all things
. So, in the meantime, treat yourself like a princess, b/c you ARE one!!!!!!!!!!
And, soon, some guy who is sooo awesome and soo DESERVING of your care and love will come around...until then, treat YOURSELF first!! B/c if you don't take care of yourslef first, you can't really take care of someone else!!!
[This message has been edited by newbie (edited June 28, 2001).]