[honeychile]

I married fairly young and very stupidly, therefore, I am divorced.

I wouldn't even date until I was comfortable with who I am, and have met a wonderful man.

If I had to give one bit of advice, I'd say that you really need that time to "know thyself" prior to bringing someone else into the equation. Some of y'all will, others won't - but being lonely while you are married is a thousand times worse than learning to be happy when you're alone.