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I think everyone who has posted so far is right on. When you find the right person and the right time, things will happen completely naturally, and the guy will be ready to settle down.
The point I wanted to make is about those of us women who tend to fall for the "player" guys. I have thought about this alot and have come to the conclusion that the reason I go for these guys is because I am not ready to settle down either. I see it as my subconscious telling me that I need to be single longer and have more experiences before I am ready to find the right person and settle down. So, I tend to be attracted to men where there is less of a danger of a serious romantic attachment from either side.
I know that this is not always the case with me, because when I am at points in my life where I am ready for relationships, I fall for different types of men. It just so happens that right now, I am enjoying being single, so I seem to gravitate to the "players". I know that someday that will change.
Anyway, that's just my little opinion. Has anyone else ever thought about this? And if so, do you think I'm way off?
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