[valkyrie]

If he doesn't want a relationship, he doesn't want a relationship, period. You can seduce him or not seduce him and it won't make a bit of difference. I think women get into trouble sometimes because they think they can do something or say something that will make a guy want a relationship. They can't. It's likely he can tell you want things to be more serious than he wants to be, and it's pretty cool that he's telling you he doesn't want a relationship -- he's not leading you on at all, and the best thing for you is to either accept being friends or not hang out with him at all.

I've said this before but -- for a guy to get into a relationship, two things have to be true: (1) the woman has to be the right woman, and (2) it has to be the right time. Without either part of the equation it's just not going to happen. You might be the right woman but it's the wrong time, and nothing you can do will change that.