[ASUADPi]

honey,

actually on my volunteer thingy I didn't even mention doing advising, mainly because I haven't been out of college for five years (fyi that five year rule is completly bogus, impo. I know for a fact that the recruitment advisor at a particular chapter hasn't even been out of college for more than two years. She graduated after me and I will be out two years in December).

My main problem is that I was blackballed by the chapter I tried to affiliate too, so my collegiate experience was taken away from me, which takes away any sorority "leadership" experience. The problem is is that is what the Province director wants "sorority leadership experience". It's stupid because if they would look at people's resumes or whatnot you could find out that sisters are going to gain leadership experience in whatever they do OUTSIDE the sorority. That is my problem, I have leadership experience, but it's "NOT WITHIN THE SORORITY AS A COLLEGIAN". So I have quite a few obstacles to overcome for something that a chapter did to me, not the other way around.