A compromise, I guess, but still doesn't seem quite right to hide things.
I guess some of it comes from being from a chapter that got treated well by our on campus. We refereed or were otherwise an active neutral party in the intergreek competitions. (We ushered greek sing, we ran the timing/scoreboard at the "buggy" races, we had the food booth at spring carnival, and at least once got asked to provide a ref for an adhoc football game between two of the socials.
Randy