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Originally posted by winneythepooh7
So I spoke to the horrid ex last night (well actually only on AOL IM because I don't have the time to actually give him over the phone). He told me he met a chic on JDate.com 2 weeks ago and she is his "soul mate" and he plans to "propose" to her. God help her and is it just me, or is it totally bizzarro world (stealing one of my sorority sister's lines) that he is planning on proposing to a chic he just met on the INTERNET!!!!!
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Yeah, I agree with Peaches-n-Cream: for some reason when a guy knows, he just does and he is ready for it. Most men are like that, just jumping right on into the mix--not thinking... But hey, sometimes you have to do that if you want it like dat dere.
He may change his mind after physically being around her though and that would not shock me. Because marriage is such a different state of mind, soulmated or not, it does not matter one way or another--chit just happens... And communication is key.
I still don't understand why you find this situation so bizarre? Are you angry that he is wanting to marry someone and you don't think he's ready in such a short time?
'Cuz I can tell you, men ponder wanting marriage for a bit of time, then when they're ready--they just wait to put a "ring on the 'right' girl's finger"... And the "ready and willing ones" are usually the nerdy goof-balls that women often dismiss--until a woman wants to work with him and he's all in love...