You're so wise newbie! Yeah I totally agree how experience is the best teacher no matter if the experience was good or bad...and so far I feel better day after day. I couldn't really blame u though about going back to your ex 3-4 times even though u knew he was a cheater (btw, thanks for sharing such a personal experience)...i tried to put myself in your shoes and i realize that humans can be "fools in love"..I know I was. I remembered thinking, if he asked me to take him back i totally would run back...but of course, that was just days after we broke up and if he did that now, I would have to think about it. We just need time to keep our thinking straight again, I guess.
But I am real happy for u that u found a guy who rightfully deserves your love and caring, and is willing to return it!
anyway to those who were looking for jobs and got one, congratulations...I know I HAVE to keep working to save up for next semester's dues and misc expenses in addition to the usual bills/school! lol. I'm saying this from the point of view of a normal middle class,i-get-an-allowance-but-its-not-that-much-type of girl: Being Greek CAN be real expensive! but hey it's totally worth it ;D It's an investment, just like splurging on 50$ sorority girl pants u know u'd be wearing in every other party. As Greeks we are investing in our sisters/brothers/FRIENDS for life.