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I echo what everyone else is saying. What you are describing is hazing and can bring about a lot of problems to your organization. If you have an advisor, I would get them involved immediately. I've seen this stuff go on and it can definately tear the organization apart. Try to get the support of your sisters who are in agreement that this is wrong and confront the sisters who are hazing and let them know their behavior is not going to be tolerated. You mentioned the new members have already spoke about dropping because of this, what's to say they haven't already begun to share their ambivalence about sticking it out with their parents, and the reasons why? If a parent calls your school you are going to have a bigger problem on your hands then "offending" a few sisters who are already well on their way to creating big problems for your organization. If they act like this as a new member, I can only imagine how horrid they will act once they are an "older" sister "demanding" respect.............
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