[preciousjeni]

Hugs to you! Ok, I'm not fully understanding who we're dealing with here. You have New Members as well as Members who crossed very recently? I'm just trying to sort it out.

Regardless of all that, you're describing some hazing activities (if it's as bad as I'm imagining!) that could cause your sorority some SERIOUS problems. Nip that in the bud. Since you have already put your own thoughts together on the issue, perhaps you would be willing to volunteer as the spokeswoman for all the members who want the mean girl and the mean president to stop acting up.

Also, maybe you could take over the New Member Program, in that, you could schedule activities without "letting everyone know." I hate to suggest mutiny here, but the situation sounds completely out of control.

Or, if the person in control of the New Member Program is on your side, be her strongest supporter!!

Are you national? If so, GET NATIONALS INVOLVED!! If not, protect your NMs and your sorority from the craziness of a few women who need a little more time to mature.