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Thanks so much to everyone who responded, especially Sistermadly, MelodyCat, preciousjeni, and tcsparky. Your comments really struck a chord with me and put things into perspective. I have really been thinking about them over the past couple days, especially the comments about being better matched as alums to the different kinds of events, and about meeting new sisters who make you feel as if you've been a sister for years. That's exactly the kind of experiences I believe will "make up for" my current regret about not joining the GLO in college that's still speaking to my heart now!! I know it will all seem worthwhile if the day ever comes when I become a member of my chosen group, XYZ. The sisterhood experience will be so much richer and more meaningful to me.

Thanks again!