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Originally posted by UKDaisy
Maybe I'm just used to this in band. But that kind of thing happens all the time. So I'm surprised he got that much money out of it.
I mean, it sucks....but its almost like its a requirement in certain bands.
I know people are gonna yell at me for thinking that but years of band has made me used to it.
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I don't think anyone will "yell" at you for the "groupthink" mentality that you have adopted as a result of the years you have spent being conditioned to this type of environment. You are not alone in this "I went through it so what's the big deal" mentality that is such a pervasive part of the culture of hazing...but it does provoke a kind of sorrow in me for how accepted this type of "requirement" seems to be.
The fact that "that kind of thing happens all the time" does not mean that it
*should* happen all the time.