When you plan the bachelorette party, keep the bride's tastes in mind. Some women aren't comfortable with strippers or blatant sexual innuendoes.
Get the other bridesmaids to help out with some of the planning. As maid of honor, you're in charge, but that doesn't mean you have to do all the legwork.
You could make a weekend of it, and go to Vegas or somewhere else, or hit some local bars/clubs. You have lots of options.
Have fun!
