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Co-sign with adpiucf....

I had for my girls:
mints before parties----a MUST!!
Coloring books---our recruitment was set up so that they had some extra time between parties.
I made folders for each member of my GammaChi group with fun sorority poems about sisterhood, etc. in them, as well as a sorority worksheet, where, after each party, they could write their thoughts and opinions of each sorority they visited with that day.....and stressed to them that it was confidential. Neither I nor anyone would read that information. It was for them, to help them make a decision.
My girls didn't want to do ice breaker games....but we did just sit around and talk----about all kinds of things----not necessarily recruitment stuff.....but I did answer questions if they had them. I got to know my girls better, and they got to answer questions and tell about themselves, just like they would do at the parties.

Think about when you went through---what things did you need to hear, what questions did you have, etc.? Chances are, they will have the same fears, and questions that you had.
Good luck to you!!!