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Look, I understand your parents are upset and you're upset, but buck up and accept the fact that this isn't your wedding. How would you feel if someone did that to you on your big day and was out to humiliate you? She has a right to choose her own bridal party.
Your parents are paying for and hosting the rehearsal. You're going to be there.
Get a flattering dress for the wedding, lose weight if you want to, but behave and be nice.
Whether or not the bride is a mean and cruel person is irrelevant right now-- it's not your wedding. It's your brother's and his bride's. And he loves her. And if you love your brother, you'll curb your enthusiasm to ruin this important occasion in his life. If your feelings are hurt, step it up and go talk to the bride! You're about to be related to one another. Have you thought that in your brother and his fiance planning this wedding together, it's not all about you and ways to make your life miserable?
I'm sorry to be coming off as cruel, but I don't see where someone hurting your feelings gives you the right to make the same wrong as they may have. Just talk to her and air things out.
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