Trust me I get it and have gotten it for a long while
I think it was the "charming way" (cough cough) it came across.
I do agree if you are in the right place at the right time and know/get in touch with the right people it is much easier. Sometimes it is sheer LUCK
Still ya gotta wait. Let me tell you if you got the "G-d gimme patience and I want it NOW" attitude, it is difficult as hell. But ya get over it and wait
Going in cold. HARD as hell. Kinda like you are 16 and looking for your first job and all you see is "experience required". How in the hell can you get a job or the experience if no one helps you get your foot in the door? So in that aspect it is tough
However if you don't do your homework (research the orgs, etc) beforehand and if you don't use DISCRETION, then you have no one to blame but yourself if it is difficult
I think we can all agree on that
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