I didn't write this, but it's so applicable.
OPEN LETTER TO VIVICA A. FOX *Diva Soul Sister (no city given):
An open letter to Vivica A. Fox ... "I'm going on the assumption that you don't have any really good girlfriends around you. If you do, please listen to them, because if they are any kind of friends, they are telling you to stop the madness. Just stop. Let me break it down for you: you look like a dayum fool. I know it's not easy to get older and you just crashed the big 4-0
but please, stop the madness.
You looked good for your age, you really did,and you looked even better before you started going under the knife. I know you know the saying "Good Black Don't Crack." Don't go down the
Lil Kim path. It's scary and it only looks good on Halloween.

Along the lines of looking good, there are lots of women who look good and classy at 40 and over.
Hootchie Mama High Fashion is not a look a grown a** woman should cultivate. Leave that for the little girls. Be the woman you are and dare to look like it.
In an interview recently you talked about being forty and glad that you were no longer wet behind the ears. Having said that then leave the teenybopper fashion to the little girls who are. You've been out of high school for over 20 years now. Release
it. Let it go.
Speaking of class, you used to have some. What happened??? Cheese cake photo spreads in King (magazine), publicly dating Fifty

and sharing a stage with Lil Jon.

Are you on drugs? You must be high. If you wanted to kick it with Fifty fine, but how are you going to go public with a man who glorifies himself as a P.I.M.P. and brags about getting shot. That's a DL move if there ever was one. Call him at 2AM, handle your business and move on. He isn't boyfriend material.
Lil Jon?

King? You are a working actress and producer. Why are you acting like a fourth-rate video hoe???? What are you trying to prove??? I think there is still hope for you. I think
you can turn it around. You look great. You are executive producer of your Lifetime show (which is doing well). You're producing several independent films. You just need to keep your mouth shut about your personal business and start dressing like the sexy woman you are not like the $5 crack hoe or pole dancing stripper you seem to be aspiring to be. I hope you can get it together.