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Well I think this question brings up a lot of emotions in most people, bc it does seem very similar to something that has happened to at least someone we have known. I am not really sure if I would call this situation rape without knowing all the details.
A friend of mine had this happen to her. She was actually hanging out with some friends for the night and got pretty drunk. She ended up leaving with a guy friend (they knew each other from before) bc she could not obviously drive herself, but he could. She doesn’t remember much past leaving until the next morning realizing that they had had sex. She obviously was blacked out, but the point is she didn’t know how coherent she was. She felt like she could have been coherent enough for him to think it was ok, but she knew she didn’t want that to happen. So she never wanted to say anything, because she felt partly at blame since she was so drunk. Also, I think though that she should go and get tested, bc my friend did end up getting an std which is a constant reminder of the bad experience and makes it harder for her to start a new relationship with someone else.
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