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Guys I'm reading this book now. It's horrible - first, they say that fear of intimacy is an urban myth. Hearing that, it was on par with saying traffic patterns are an urban myth. It's horrible to examine the 'rules' of the book not as male vs. female, but as yourself and your past relationships with people who are all men. It's when you personalize the rules that its horrific to examine yourself and your past - that guy, that guy who introduced you to his parents as his girlfriend and then with whom you were very happy with for three months, well then when he got weird, well, then he wasn't weird, he wasn't that into you. I was very happy thinking he was werid, now I'm going to break it off because its him not me. Now, even when I broke it off with that weird guy cause he got weird, it still means that he wasn't that into me. Me. The book says I'm supposed to be empowered by breaking it off and having standards and every couple of sentences they remind me that I'm hot but that still means that most of the guys in my life are not that into me. If they're not running to date me now, they're not that into me. Which is harsh. Its like going back to that day in the third grade and having everyone in the class tell you smell funny or something.
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