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Old 10-29-2004, 11:53 AM
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Your big is just one sister out of 25 or 50 or 80 or however big your chapter is. If you're not comfortable with your big, that's ok. Hang out with her - maybe you'll surprise yourself and become close - and maybe not. If not, make connections with your pledge sisters and with other initiated sisters. Just because a given sister isn't your big doesn't mean you can't become close friends. But don't depledge just because of one person.
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