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My big and I didn't get extremely close. But I knew she was there and if I felt alone I knew she would support me no matter what. We didn't have to hang out all the time and whatnot. And she graduated the semester after she took me so she wasn't really around much. But I still keep in touch with her and I'm helping her start up her business by designing her business cards/logos. And I know I wouldn't want anyone else coordinating my future wedding, as she is becoming a wedding planner. Granted we aren't stuck together like glue (or like my first lil and I were) we still know that we have each other to rely on.
And look at it from your big's perspective: At first my first lil and I weren't all that close. She wanted someone else to be her big at first and she wasn't my first choice. BUT we eventually grew closer and became roommates for about 3 years.
Bottom line... give it time.
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