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Don't depledge because of your big! I didn't like my big...we had nothing in common, she was (still is :P) a total ditz, etc. I was very close with my pledge sisters big and my NME however. Last year, when my school had there leadership retreat, it was going to be my pledge sister, my big and a third sister going with me. The other two decided it woudl be good for us to share a room so we could bond. Ever since then we hav e been a lot closer....it just took some time