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Originally posted by honeychile
PLEASE don't make your entire decision on your sorority on the big sister you were assigned!! There could be a million reasons why you didn't get one of the women who you really wanted, but you DID get the sorority you wanted! Within time, you will "adopt" or gravitate to your "real" big sister!
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I definitely agree with what honeychile has posted. My diamond sister & I never really clicked. We were just too different, but it was really no big deal. Like honeychile mentioned, in time you will "adopt" a "real" big sister... at least that is what happened to me! My "cubic zirconia" (as I like to call her
) and I are best friends. We have lunch on a regular basis, call each other when we need to talk, and hang out just for fun.
It's not all about your "big" sister. I can definitely say that when I got my big, I was sort of feeling like you. I honestly didn't even know who my big was until she became my big
We just ended up being different. While it was always sad to see the other diamond sisters that seemed to become close friends, that feeling goes away and you will probably find someone in the chapter that you can call your adoptive big
