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My Kappa Phi big and I didn't get along at all. She was a senior and I was a freshman when I came into the chapter. She was not concerned with the chapter and was racist (I'm Black) against Blacks. But since littles didn't get to choose bigs, I got stuck.
I tried to bond with her, but she was very depressing and didn't really care about Kappa really at all. So I pretty much gravitated more towards the more positive chapter members. And the next semester, when I got my little, I made it a point to treat her the way I wanted to be treated.
So, no not everyone has a magical bond with their bigs. And in my opinion, it's not worth depledging b/c sisterhood is WAY bigger than bigs and littles.
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