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My big lived off campus with her parents in a super-strict Greek family who made her have a curfew of like 9PM or something like that. Because of that we weren't as close as we could have been. But like the other ladies have said, you become friends with the other members of the organization so you shouldn't let this make you feel that you just need to leave the organization. Also sometimes too what happens is that people who are graduating who have never had a little are matched up that way, with the hopes they will "bond" but sometimes it just doesn't happen. I also had a "surrogate" little who happened to not be too close to her big. Many women end up experiencing this for one reason or another. It's interesting though, I wasn't close at all to my pledge mom when I was in undergrad, in fact I thought she was one of the "meaner" sisters, but we ended up becoming close after graduation, while sisters I was close to in undergrad, we don't even speak anymore.
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