Think of it this way. Sisterhood expands way beyond your big sister. It's within your chapter and in your entire organization.

How long has it been since she became your big? Have you given it a chance?

And what do you mean by repledging? Are you going to depledge and then wait and come back?

It happens to more people than you think. My own sis-mom was totally MIA when I was a pledge, but there were so many sisteres in the chapter who made me feel so welcome and because of that, it didn't really matter if I wasn't showered with gifts or if I didn't have bonding time with her.

How is your relationship with the other new members? The initiated sisters? If you feel comfortable enough, try and get advice from them, talk to your New Member Coordinator, explain your concerns and see if there's anything she can do to make your experience any better!