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Old 10-28-2004, 09:48 PM
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When did you get your big? You have to give it time. You won't be close immediately, especially if it is a very large chapter.

DON'T repledge just because of your big - it will cause lots of hurt feelings, and it'll make you seem very selfish.

Not everybody is superduper best friends forever with their big. Honestly it's not the end of the world. Just give it a try, and you may be surprised. There's a reason why that person volunteered to be your big.
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