He should wash his hands and look at the other groups. He can still maintain those friendships and if he never finds another group, and they do come back in three years, he could think of them again. It is his decision, but the work needed to recolonize a fraternity is immense, does he really want to doe that his senior year when he'll really need to be looking for a job or grad school?
Besides, if you aren't actually ACTIVE for three years, what kind of experience do you really get from the fraternity?
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