unconditional love is greater, absolutely. it is there, always, unconditionally, whereas the 'being in love' feeling can come and go over the course of a long relationship.
I am not sure if it is possible to be in love with two people at the same time. I've thought I was before, but one of them was more of an unconditional love thing--and I still feel that way about him and he me even though we've been broken up for a long time, we talk every once in awhile and it just clicks and nothing the other person does can make us hate them, its a bond and a connection we share. The one I was in love with at the time--history. Unconditional love is MUCH stronger.
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