I think you can tell yourself how long you are rebounding. I got out of a 1.5 year realtionship about 5-6 months ago and although I'm ready to get out and date (see Single and Proud), I'm certianly not ready to have a realtionship with anyone. I would know the healing process is totally over when I want a realtionship, and can talk to my ex without wondering what things would be like if we were back together. That day isn't here yet. I imagine the ex thing will happen first, and the wanting a relationship thing will take some time.
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