For those that wonder if she would have just had sex with him anyway, assuming she was less drunk. . . . Well, we will never know because that wasn't the situation.
Although she doesn't make a habit of one night stands.
By all accounts the guy was drinking, but not seriously drunk.
To me it seems that he views himself as a bit of a cocksman. She got to the party really wasted and he attached himself to her right away, and hung out with her all-night. Classic strategy. Something i never had the attention span for.
Target of opportunity. Its not exactly noble, but its not exactly uncommon. And if that were the extent of it, oh well.
However, I think as a matter of respect he should have refrained from having sex with a girl that messed up.
Certainly I have desisted with girls much less visibly impaired than that. (somewhat to my regret
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I think this is a failure in a social situation and not something that requires legal intervention.
I think its a lesson for her on trust and vulnerability. And should be a lesson for him on respect and manners.
His subsequent bragging is immature, and also misplaced.
If it doesn't speak well of you to brag about having sex with an ugly girl, it certainly doesn't speak well of you to brag about carnal knowledge off a girl thats passed out.
It has about much status as bragging about copping a feel from your mom. Maybe you enjoyed it, but telling anyone is stupid and liable to gross us out.
Since her friend and her fraternity boyfriend brought it up, I think she deserves an apology. Now that its been mentioned it would be even more rude for him to refuse to do it.
ITs been a few days and no apology has happened yet, and her friend as well as her friend's BF have not brought it up.