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My stepdad has told me a lot of stuff about the fraternity he was in during college, which was a local and has since been taken over by a national organization; I know the handshake, some ritual stuff, and some things that they were required to do during pledging. From the way he talks, though, their rules were a little more lax than what most of us are used to...I think their members could even join another group after being initiated if they ever decided to quit, so maybe they weren't as secretive as national groups are. I don't know. I think if it bothers you, you shouldn't tell, because that's your subconscious telling you that you think it's wrong. I guess it just depends on how your group worked.
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