I don't have an issue with the D9 not allowing non-D9 orgs to step in their shows. I believe that it would convey a spirit of brother/sisterhood in general (and would reflect positively on them as well) for them to open their stepshows up to non-D9 orgs, but by no means do I think they have an obligation to do so.
I do have a problem, however, when the Pan allows a non-D9 org to step but only
in exhibition. If a non-D9 org is good enough to be seen in a stepshow where
spectators are paying admission (to be subsequently entertained by non-D9 orgs as well as the D9; there have been instances where my org was the most entertaining in the show), then the non-D9 org should be allowed to compete for prize money. Simply put, either the non-D9 are in, or they're out; if they aren't allowed to compete, then
don't invite them at all. Period.
That being said, my answer to all non-D9 orgs concerning this never-ending debate is: "
Get your own stepshow!". With all due respect to the D9, they don't have to be the only game in town. If non-D9 orgs are not invited to compete in the local "Pan" stepshow, then they should band together and put on their own (and be magnanimous by opening it up to the D9). This happens on many college campuses where the Greek community (and mindset) is not exclusive to the D9.
At any rate, this issue (which really boils down to "validation") is in many cases a losing battle that, in the overall scheme of things, is irrelevant and not worth the time or energy. If you're looking for acceptance, or validation, or "what have you", you will likely be disappointed.
Besides, there are more important battles.
