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Originally posted by MelodyCat
Mr. MelodyCat asked me what went on after I was initated.
I told him, "I can't tell you any specifics. Just know that it's a beautiful ritual."
He pouted for a second and tried to jokingly cajole me into telling him, but I looked him in the eye and said, "Honey? I love you. I normally tell you everything that is important to me, but I can't tell you that. Please respect that."
He's never asked again.
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Mr. Lovely_Gurl has never asked....but my guess is that IF you had chosen to disclose this information, if your husband is like mine, he would have kept the information between the two of you.
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And FYI, I suspect our Internationals would frown very highly on a member who spilled secrets. Take that as you will.
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Well, I haven't done an IEB poll about it, but I suspect it would depend on the individual....though I am sure there would be at least a few who would have the reaction that you suggest.