Ok I promised an update and here it is...
Things are going decently well this semester, and I am happy with the way things are (concentrating on school and family)... I'm also very glad I did not join the service sorority that I was considering, as they have lost respect with me because of some of the girls that they bid. However, there are a couple of parties coming up that I have been invited to through a friend of mine in a specific group (Challenger). I am seriously considering going to these parties, as I like the girls and could have a good time. However, there is one small issue that is weighing on my mind.
Due to some extinuating circumstances, I may not be back at my current school next spring. I have been told by a couple of profs that I am not going to get into my program of choice due to my political leanings. This is mainly because I am outspoken in class and have to problem speaking my mind. Because of this, I have a couple of profs who have taken a dislike to me. They have since told me that i will not be getting into my program. Therefor I have chosen to apply to a school that is nearby with the equivalant program. They also have a greek system, and one that is quite well respected. I do know however, that unless I go in as an active, I will not get into their greek system.
I guess it all boils down to this...If I go to these parties, and get a bid, unbeknownst that I am seriously considering a transfer, how bad does it look on me? Am I taking an unecessary risk? I'm sure I could try to COB at my new school, but seeing as I am a senior, I know it is unlikely that I would get a bid.
I know I'm rambling, but all this has come up within the last 48 hours. My profs decided to tell me what they did as I prepare to apply to my program and whatnot, and I don't want to stay at a place where I have no shot. On the other hand, I want to be a part of greek life ASAP! I have not made a final decision on where I will be in school next semester, as I have not heard anything back on my admissions app for the new school.
Let me know what you guys think! Thanks again for all your support and help!
KBF
Also, if you know who I am, please don't reveal me! There are plenty of people on here from both my current school and my prospective school! Thanks
