I would go ahead and let you have both of your lil's. I mean, you already have a bond with NM A and everything. She was already in your family and is part of all of your traditions that go with your family. And they/you want NM B to be your lil also, so I say go for it and fight to have both lil's. If the Pres doesn't want one, then tell her that it's like you taking her lil that she doesn't want. (Just re-read that and it sounded bad as if the NM wasn't wanted, but you know what I mean
). I will be keeping my fingers crossed that you will be able to get both NM's A and B!!