While I cannot speak for all of My Brothers of LXA, all of the ones that I know of or in talking to their wives at functions have no clue about LXAs Ritual.
Ss the founder of my local and being married my final year, the equipment was sent and stored at our house. I was instructed not to look into the trunk and I didnt. My then wife, married for 20 years asked me if she could look into it. With that question, I just told her if I find out you did, I will divorce you, plane and simple. I worked to hard at that point to lose what was in the near grasp for all of the guys of the local.
So you sleep with your mate, doesnt he or she have respect for what you went through to become a Brother or Sister?
I am proud of LXA Ritual and everytime I attend one, I still get misty of eye and hair standing on the back of my neck.
Is it for everyone, no it isnt, just like each of yours.
If you want to spill your guts about something, tell about the little pecidellos that you had before marriage or even during!
Maybe mine means more to me for what I went through to get it as it does many after me, 600+!
I doubt it!
