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Originally posted by Lovely_gurl
Well, thankfully for all I am neither a doctor nor a lawyer nor even a nurse....so we can all breathe a huge SIGH of relief! All you ready now?....all together...inhale, exhale.
I think it is simply a matter of how you look at things. To me, my spouse is an extension of me....and I simply would have no problem sharing with him any aspect of my life because we are partners. If he wanted to know (which I'm sure is probably the last thing on his mind) yes, I would probably tell him. And other than reading this board, I would expect that my sorority sisters would not have any inkling about that because my husband would know that it is not appropriate to attempt to bond with my sisters over this knowledge.
I guess I am just one of those people who takes the words that "the two shall become one" very seriously and I think it is quite different from telling my aunt or my uncle or a close friend. But this is ME....not you or anyone else....and I do not presume to force you to AGREE with my interpretation or judge you based on your choices of what you choose to share and do not share in your marriage. Am just offering a perspective that would explain why the original posters friend may have shared this stuff with her spouse.
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Why should your husband trust your marital vows when you can't even keep a simple, and effortless oath like not revealing your fraternal secrets?