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Originally posted by KillarneyRose
Wow, just wow.
I'm sure all of your sisters are overjoyed that one of their own has admitted that she picks and chooses which vows she will keep depending on her life circumstances at the time.
I hope you're not a doctor. Doctors take an oath that they will keep patient information private. Lawyers, similarly, aren't allowed to blab about their clients EVEN to a spouse. Does your husband also share your careless attitude toward secrets he swore to keep? Geez, I hope he's not in the military.
Honor means keeping your vows. Period. You don't get to pick and choose. You, my dear, seem to be sorely lacking in that department and I feel sorry for your sisters and even for your husband. Afterall, you might get tired of him in a few years and decide to get rid of him. There's really nothing keeping you two together except for those pesky wedding vows and we all know how you feel about vows 
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Well, thankfully for all I am neither a doctor nor a lawyer nor even a nurse....so we can all breathe a huge SIGH of relief! All you ready now?....all together...inhale, exhale.
I think it is simply a matter of how you look at things. To me, my spouse is an extension of me....and I simply would have no problem sharing with him any aspect of my life because we are partners. If he wanted to know (which I'm sure is probably the last thing on his mind) yes, I would probably tell him. And other than reading this board, I would expect that my sorority sisters would not have any inkling about that because my husband would know that it is not appropriate to attempt to bond with my sisters over this knowledge.
I guess I am just one of those people who takes the words that "the two shall become one" very seriously and I think it is quite different from telling my aunt or my uncle or a close friend. But this is ME....not you or anyone else....and I do not presume to force you to AGREE with my interpretation or judge you based on your choices of what you choose to share and do not share in your marriage. Am just offering a perspective that would explain why the original posters friend may have shared this stuff with her spouse.
