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My first husband was a Lambda Chi and we never shared any ritual secrets. We never pressured each other either as we both understood that it wasn't to be shared. I believe the vows I took meant NOBODY other than Initiated Members. We don't invite spouses to Initiation. If spouses were supposed to know and if it was ok to share it with them, then they'd be invited to Initiation. Even when we have an alumnae club meeting at someone's house and do our opening meeting ritual, the spouse and kids can't be home. My second husband never asked, because he wasn't Greek and had no idea that anything meant anything. My daughter has asked and I told her that the only way to find out is by being initiated into AGD and that I would love to share it with her and talk with her about it THEN.
Dee
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