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Old 10-22-2004, 09:15 PM
wrigley wrigley is offline
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Originally posted by James
[B]Update:

The BF said that the brother she had been with was bragging and telling everyone what a freak she was in bed. In other words, a very different story than her experience.

So as of now, the BF said that he was going to try and get a written apology from the guy to be read in front of chapter as well as delivered to my friend.

In defense of her friend, the girl that left her, she is a real "frat rat." I don't know if you know the type, but its the kind of girl that hangs out with one specific fraternity chapter, often dating one of its members, and thinks the rest must be saints because they tolerate and are nice to her.

So she figured that my friend must be safe with these guys because they were all from that fraternity chapter.
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I think the written apology is pointless. Most likely it won't be sincere. He obviously thinks he was studdly duddly. It won't change what happened to her or that night. I like ISUKappa's idea of some type of programming about aquaintance rape and alcohol use, counseling, and let him do community service at a rape crisis center,or shelter for abused women. Jail time hasn't worked for those there already I doubt it would do a thing for him.
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